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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 24.06.2025 08:15

How does one succeed in life?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

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Ask yourself:

That's it for today.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Does not procrastinate.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Do not set goals—set systems.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What I need from you?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.